Blooming in the Wilderness: Why New Identity Is Forged In the Barren Places
There’s a season in life that feels like you're standing in the middle of nowhere, unsure of what to do, why you’re there, or what comes next. It's an uncomfortably quiet place where it seems like every question you ask is met with a heavy, ominous silence. You feel rooted in place, but not by choice. Some might call it a rut, others a waiting room. But if we are completely honest, it feels more like a wilderness.
Here’s what most people don’t understand about a wilderness season: it’s not a detour. It's part of the necessary path on your journey to reach your promised land. In your mind's eye, you have glimpsed the life you want to live: work that aligns with who you are, love that truly sees you and lasts, creativity that is appreciated and unstifled, and real freedom that's not just an aspirational fantasy. This vision that you have for your life aligns with that special something inside of you that screams, “I know that I am made for more than this.”
Familiar Circles: Why We Keep Making the Same Mistakes (and How to Finally Break the Cycle)
How did I end up here again?
The names, the jobs, the details may change—but the pattern remains. Another creative project you abandoned midway. Another job that looked exciting on paper but drained you dry. Another relationship where you lost yourself trying to be what someone else wanted.
When you find yourself replaying the same painful scenarios, it’s not a coincidence. It’s a pattern—and patterns have roots. The good news? Anything learned can be unlearned. But first, you have to see it clearly.
Radically Honest: 7 Strategies to Live Authentically within a World That Resents It
If you ever thought that living a truly honest and authentic life would be easy, let me thoroughly and completely dispel you of that false belief right now. It’s not. It never was. And it never will be.
This may sound harsh, but it’s rooted in love—and more importantly, it’s true.
The world we live in was not built on truth. Many of its systems—social, cultural, economic—were crafted on performances, roles, and norms polished to look like virtues: tradition, loyalty, duty. But scratch the surface, and you often find fear, control, or self-preservation disguised as "the right thing to do."
So when you decide to live a life grounded in radical honesty—with yourself, with others, with your creative calling—you are choosing not just to step outside the system, but to move against it.
And the system doesn't like that.
The Double Life of a Creative: How to Thrive at a Day Job While Building Your Passion
Let’s get honest—most creative entrepreneurs, artists, writers, and visionaries don’t wake up one day and get paid to do what they love full time. Not at first. The journey toward making a living off your creativity is often supported—sometimes begrudgingly—by a day job. This doesn’t mean you’re selling out. It means you’re strategic, resilient, and building something real.
It’s a reality many avoid talking about, but embracing your “double life” as both a professional and a passionate creative can actually fuel your growth, not hinder it.
What to do when Negativity Strikes: Regain Control in 5 Steps
Negativity is sneaky.
It creeps in as a passing doubt, a familiar inner critic, or a wave of overwhelm that feels too heavy to push against. Sometimes, it shows up in the form of comparison, self-sabotage, or the haunting question: What’s the point?
Whether you're a creative, a visionary, or just someone trying to stay grounded in a noisy world, you're not immune to moments where your inner world starts to tilt toward pessimism. But here’s the truth: negativity isn’t the enemy. It’s a signal. It means your mind is asking for something—perspective, clarity, or even rest.
The key is learning how to respond to it with intention rather than letting it run the show.
The Power of Your Why: The Secret to Goals That Actually Stick
Everyone talks about setting goals—SMART goals, big goals, stretch goals. But what no one tells you is that goals without a meaningful reason behind them rarely survive the first real obstacle. Ambition alone doesn’t carry you through a bad week, a creative block, or a setback. Your "why" does.
Your "why" is your personal anchor. It's the emotional driver behind your decisions—the deeper purpose that makes your goals worth chasing, even when things get hard, boring, or uncertain. Without it, goals become burdens. With it, they become missions.
So if you're wondering why you're not following through, why you're stuck in the same loop, or why burnout is nipping at your heels, you might not need a new plan. You might just need a stronger why.
For Those in Pursuit of Beauty
Let’s talk about something we all crave, whether we admit it or not: beauty. And I’m not just talking about surface-level beauty—the perfect home, the flawless outfit, or the picturesque sunset (though those things are wonderful too). I’m talking about the kind of beauty that seeps into every part of your life. The kind that fills your days with peaceful moments, meaningful connections, and experiences that make you pause and say, “This is what it means to truly live.”
If you’re like me, you probably long for a life that’s full of beauty. You want to surround yourself with things that bring you joy, experiences that make your heart feel full, and moments that leave you feeling at peace with the world. But how do we get there? How do we live a life where beauty is not just an occasional surprise, but a daily experience?
What’s in a (Brand) Name? How to Build a Brand That Feels Like You
We understand how overwhelming it can be to name a new project or business.
You want it to sound right. Look good. Mean something. Be memorable. Be available. (And don’t even get started on the dot-com.)
But here’s the truth most people won’t tell you:
Your brand isn’t built on a name.
It’s built on clarity.
Clarity about who you are.
Clarity about who you’re here to serve.
Clarity about the experience you want people to have when they encounter your work.
Without that, even the most clever name will fall flat.
So before you pull out the thesaurus or search Instagram for inspiration, slow down.
Let’s start with what matters most—building a brand that reflects your identity, your values, and your vision. The right name will follow.
Who in the World Are You? Why Living Authentically Is the Only Way to Thrive
Let’s get honest for a moment.
So many of us are out here trying to build beautiful lives on foundations that don’t even belong to us. We’re chasing jobs we don’t care about. Wearing masks that keep us palatable. Numbing our discomfort with productivity, perfectionism, or pretending.
And not so deep down, we know something’s off.
Here’s the truth:
You can’t live joyfully if you’re not living truthfully.
You can’t thrive when you’re constantly editing yourself to be more acceptable, more successful, more likeable, more whatever-they-expect.
Because none of those things will make you feel like you belong—not even to yourself.
A Letter to the Underdogs
You’ve been counted out more times than you can count.
They underestimated you because you were quiet.
Because you didn’t look the part.
Because you weren’t polished or loud or approved by all the right people.
You’ve watched others get picked first.
You’ve worked twice as hard for half the recognition.
You’ve questioned if your pace was too slow, your voice too soft, your dreams too far.
And still—you’re here. Still trying. Still building. Still showing up when no one’s clapping.
That kind of resilience can’t be taught. That’s power most people wouldn’t survive.
Say the Quiet Part Out Loud: The Necessity of Telling the Truth
We live in a world that often rewards polished surfaces. Keep it light. Keep it moving. Don’t rock the boat. Don’t speak until it’s perfect.
But deep down, we know: silence isn’t always neutral. Sometimes it’s just fear in disguise. And when we refuse to tell the truth—about what we feel, what we’ve lived, what we need—we don’t just lose touch with ourselves. We also hold back something that could set someone else free.
Because truth is never just personal. It echoes.
Telling the truth—your truth—may not feel brave at first. It may feel inconvenient. Clumsy. Too raw. Too much. But there’s a quiet revolution in speaking what’s real. In naming what you’ve buried. In saying the thing that’s hard to say, not for attention, but for alignment. For healing.
And not just for you.
Be the Light: The Importance of Being Kind to Yourself First
In a world that often feels harsh, fast, and unrelenting, kindness can seem like a luxury, something reserved for a slower day, a safer time, or a more peaceful place. But here’s the truth: kindness isn’t optional. It’s essential. Especially the kind you give to yourself.
You’ve heard it before: you can’t pour from an empty cup. But let’s go deeper. How can you genuinely show compassion, patience, and respect to others when you don’t practice those same things with yourself?
The way you speak to yourself becomes the way you move through the world. If your inner voice is cruel, perfectionistic, or dismissive, it’s likely that those same patterns will seep into how you handle others—however unintentionally.
The Quiet Joy of Pen to Paper: Why Writing and Creating by Hand Still Matter
In a world ruled by glowing screens and infinite scrolls, there's something sacred—almost rebellious—about picking up a pen and letting it glide across a fresh page. It’s slow. It’s tactile. It’s analog in the best possible way. And for many of us, it’s joy.
Whether you're jotting down thoughts in a journal, sketching a loose idea in the margins, or writing a letter to no one in particular, putting pen to paper taps into something primal and deeply human. There’s a rhythm to it—a pace that invites stillness, focus, and connection. It's not just an act of creation—it's a practice of presence.
Welcome to Your Cottagecore Era: Romanticize Your Life with Rustic Intention
Have you ever dreamed of a life that feels like it was plucked from the pages of a well-worn novel? A life where time slows down, where fresh bread bakes in the oven as linen curtains flutter in the breeze, and where even the simplest tasks feel like rituals of self-love?
Welcome to cottagecore—an aesthetic and lifestyle rooted in nostalgia, nature, and intentional living. But more than just a pretty Pinterest board, cottagecore is a gentle rebellion against hustle culture. It invites you to slow down, tune in, and infuse beauty into your everyday routine.
Contrary to what Instagram might suggest, you don’t need to move to the countryside or wear puff-sleeved dresses every day to live the cottagecore dream (though we certainly support these cottagecore activities). You can start exactly where you are, right now. Whether you're in a tiny studio apartment or a suburban home, the essence of cottagecore is about how you live, not where you live.
Here’s how to add cottagecore elements to your life—beautifully, purposefully, and sustainably.
Haven’t You Seen Enough? You Don’t Need More Research, You Need to Begin.
At a certain point, it’s not about “gathering information” anymore.
It’s just hiding.
Let’s be honest: how many podcasts have you listened to about your dream?
How many blogs have you read? How many books are waiting, dog-eared and highlighted, but not lived?
There’s a fine line between preparation and procrastination—and a lot of us cross it wearing the mask of productivity. We build Pinterest boards, comparison-shop for tools, watch tutorials on skills we already understand, and convince ourselves we’re “just not ready yet.”
But the truth?
You’ve seen enough. You know enough. You are enough.
Now it’s time to begin.
What We Carry: Letting Go of What You Have to Get What You Want
At a certain point, it’s not about “gathering information” anymore.
It’s just hiding.
Let’s be honest: how many podcasts have you listened to about your dream?
How many blogs have you read? How many books are waiting, dog-eared and highlighted, but not lived?
There’s a fine line between preparation and procrastination—and a lot of us cross it wearing the mask of productivity. We build Pinterest boards, comparison-shop for tools, watch tutorials on skills we already understand, and convince ourselves we’re “just not ready yet.”
But the truth?
You’ve seen enough. You know enough. You are enough.
Now it’s time to begin.
People Need What You’ve Been Running From: Start The Project That You Can’t Shake.
We all have that project.
The one you think about in the quiet moments.
The one that shows up in your notes app, your sketchbook, or your daydreams.
The one that keeps resurfacing no matter how many times you try to set it aside.
Some of you have even tried to forget it—telling yourself it’s unrealistic, unimportant, or already done by someone else. But here’s the thing: you can’t let it go… because it’s yours for a reason.
The Truth About Identity: Why Everything Crumbles Without It
In the rush to launch, scale, and perform, many creatives skip the most essential step: defining who they really are. They build the website, create the offer, post the content—but if the foundation is wobbly, the whole thing starts to crack. The truth is, if you don’t begin with a clear, honest vision of your truest identity, everything built on top of it will eventually come undone.
In a world obsessed with reinvention and achievement, it’s easy to believe that your next breakthrough will come from doing more, trying harder, or copying what worked for someone else. But if your identity isn't the foundation, everything you build on top of it will eventually crack.
That’s because real alignment—creatively, professionally, emotionally—only happens when your work reflects who you truly are.
Not who you think you should be. Not who you’re trying to impress. Just you.
The Myth of “Just Focus on One Thing” (And Why It Doesn’t Work for Creative Minds)
If you’ve ever been told to “just pick one thing and stick to it,” you’re not alone—and you’ve probably tried. Maybe you even downloaded a color-coded productivity app, created a vision board for your “one thing,” and promised yourself this would be the year you become someone who finishes before starting something else.
But here’s the thing: for many creative minds, that advice doesn’t work. Not because we’re flaky or undisciplined, but because our brains are wired differently. We’re not built for a linear path—we’re built for possibility. And that’s not a flaw. It’s a feature.
Anxious Procrastination or Analysis Paralysis? Doesn’t Matter—Here’s the Solution for Both
Let’s be honest: whether you’re stuck overthinking every possible outcome or avoiding your to-do list by organizing your sock drawer for the fourth time—you’re not alone.
Some call it anxious procrastination—when fear and perfectionism team up to keep you from starting. Others call it analysis paralysis—when you get so caught in your own thoughts you forget what you were even trying to do in the first place. Different names, same result: you’re stuck, the project is untouched, and you're spiraling in a cycle of guilt, avoidance, and overwhelm.
The worst part? You're not even lazy. You're thoughtful. Ambitious. Capable. You care deeply about doing things right—which is exactly why getting started feels so hard.
But here’s the truth: you don’t need to diagnose your stuckness to move through it. You just need a plan that works for your nervous system. Let’s talk about it.